commend you for not wanting a divorce. You say
your husband is a Godly Christian man... You should
not deny him intimacy, 1 Corinthians 7:5 clearly
states you should not deprive one another so Satan
does not have any room to work in your marriage.
Humble yourself and whenever he says something
to hurt you deeply, remember Jesus on the cross
and the nails in his hands. How deep was His pain?
Fast and pray for your husband and love him when
he is unlovable. Call on Jesus and watch the enemy
of your soul run from you marriage. The Bible
says in James 4:10, Humble yourselves in the
sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up."